Monday, October 3, 2011

Arguing about Intimacy

            Intimacy has been an important part in society for many years, from earliest recorded history to today, which everyone would be in relationships with one another to keep society alive.  It has been getting very odd in these past years that many people would be going online to search for a relationship.  Its not that great with a lot of these dating sites nowadays with all of these matches with people that have similar qualities that you have, towards the point that he/she might not be that interesting as you had thought he/she might have been.  There would even be problems that would even go on from the prices you would have to pay to even be on those sites towards that they would be a complete waste of time.  This is just my opinion, but I think that we should just shut down these sites just so that a lot of people won’t have to waste their time with them on all of the problems.
            EHarmony, Zoosk, Cupid, and LDSingles are just some of many dating sites that are provided on the Internet that many people became members on so that they hope they can be able to get into a relationship.  They would be having all of these commercials on TV lately to help promote their sites from saying such things as “its not that difficult as other dating sites” or “I was able to find that one person very well”.  Of what they aren’t telling you is that you will still have those difficult moments you would still deal with being on those other dating sites before the current one you are on.  There would even be problems that a lot of customers would not be satisfied at all on being a member, so they would just quit and move onto yet another dating site hoping he/she will get somewhere.  That routine would keep on going for a while and there would be no stop towards the point that he/she will realize that they had wasted so much time for nothing.
            Another problem with these sites are the prices they would put on so you could either upgrade your membership so you can have access to “special” privileges or being able to activate your account for a monthly fee.  There would be times when you are member on such a site and you would hit a certain limit on messages that you can send and receive.  So you would purchase a specific membership for a certain amount of months so you can have unlimited messaging to send and receive.  As an added bonus, you would be able to have access to chat with other “special” members and see certain information that they would only let certain members see.  One day, one member would realize that he/she has thought of that it would be time to quit being a member.  They would soon remember that he/she has wasted a lot of money for a long time and would never see that money ever again.
             It is all of a waste of time in my book since you would spend so many hours a day being on these sites hoping that you can get somewhere with someone from becoming friends with them towards being able to go out with them.  They would even waste a lot of money just for nothing that they would soon regret of ever doing.  Even if they were able to find someone on one of these sites, each of them would have to decide if they would cancel their membership or not to keep getting more friends or finding some potential dates later on.  It won’t be that great in the long run in my opinion, but they should just stop doing these sites since so many people will not go anywhere with other people that would not be that interesting towards the other person.